All of us we live in the same world. However two can look at the same event, hear the same words, but give them absolutely various senses. Thanks to it we receive a rich variety of human values, political directions, religions, interests and motives. The conflict arises when we insist that important for us should be important and for others. Imagine: once each of us has believed that in life there is something important, standing efforts, time and emotional heat. Someone is assured that the main business of life should become timely washing of ware which cannot be postponed for a minute after the dinner is eaten. Someone never is not late anywhere and considers as a terrible insult when others dares to be late for meetings to it. Someone is convinced that any normal person should receive necessarily the diploma about higher education. Others firmly believe that the person respecting cannot receive the income below 2000 dollars a month. Some wives know that необоходимо to throw all interesting affairs, to sit down in an armchair, to make a sad look and to be upset, if the husband has come home on an hour after the usual. Their husbands, in turn, can be programmed that if at you something is not got on on work, it is necessary to go to a bar and to get drunk. Someone is convinced that there is nothing more important, than to give all attention to children. Someone goes on fishing, plays cards, struggles for world peace or reflects on sense of the Universe, for days on end lying on a sofa. Conflicts begin when we extend this value far beyond our personal interests and we convince ourselves that all progressive mankind should live by the same rules. (And if who does not follow these rules, it means at it simply «not all houses», or – an obstinate numskull which meanwhile nobody has taught to respect traditions). Now it seems to you that you парнер does many things not simply "in own way", and it is wrong.
Conflicts Family is the most important part in everyone`s life. But sometimes it might be very hard to deal with very simple conflict. First of all, family must be close-knit and every member must always get on well with each other. It`s normal to feel frustrated, disappointed or sad. These feelings are natural, because every person in this world can have his own thoughts. It`s OK sometimes to feel being fed up with your relatives. Children should also understand that their parents might be very tired after a hard day and they just need our help but not silly emotions. They must respect their parents whoever they are. There`re a lot of ways to live without arguments: you should be very attentive to your relatives, don`t let them be mad, sad or just feel very bad, just smile and try to look on the bright side of life, then not only your family but your friends will be attracted with your boost of energy. You should get involved in activities and talk about them – then you will have a lot of things to talk about with your friends or relatives and just make them happy and don`t think about disappointing things. It`s better to keep away from disagreement and deal with conflicts successfully. But when it comes to solve that problem (it`s very difficult and step by step process), you must just cool off, take a deep breath and relax. Take your time to overthink once again what has happened. Don`t blame and accuse because your opponent is an individual person too and has his own mind. Be flexible and open-minded, willing to apologize, forgive and move on.
All of us we live in the same world. However two can look at the same event, hear the same words, but give them absolutely various senses. Thanks to it we receive a rich variety of human values, political directions, religions, interests and motives. The conflict arises when we insist that important for us should be important and for others.
Imagine: once each of us has believed that in life there is something important, standing efforts, time and emotional heat. Someone is assured that the main business of life should become timely washing of ware which cannot be postponed for a minute after the dinner is eaten. Someone never is not late anywhere and considers as a terrible insult when others dares to be late for meetings to it. Someone is convinced that any normal person should receive necessarily the diploma about higher education. Others firmly believe that the person respecting cannot receive the income below 2000 dollars a month. Some wives know that необоходимо to throw all interesting affairs, to sit down in an armchair, to make a sad look and to be upset, if the husband has come home on an hour after the usual. Their husbands, in turn, can be programmed that if at you something is not got on on work, it is necessary to go to a bar and to get drunk. Someone is convinced that there is nothing more important, than to give all attention to children. Someone goes on fishing, plays cards, struggles for world peace or reflects on sense of the Universe, for days on end lying on a sofa.
Conflicts begin when we extend this value far beyond our personal interests and we convince ourselves that all progressive mankind should live by the same rules. (And if who does not follow these rules, it means at it simply «not all houses», or – an obstinate numskull which meanwhile nobody has taught to respect traditions). Now it seems to you that you парнер does many things not simply "in own way", and it is wrong.
Family is the most important part in everyone`s life. But sometimes it might be very hard to deal with very simple conflict. First of all, family must be close-knit and every member must always get on well with each other. It`s normal to feel frustrated, disappointed or sad. These feelings are natural, because every person in this world can have his own thoughts. It`s OK sometimes to feel being fed up with your relatives.
Children should also understand that their parents might be very tired after a hard day and they just need our help but not silly emotions. They must respect their parents whoever they are. There`re a lot of ways to live without arguments: you should be very attentive to your relatives, don`t let them be mad, sad or just feel very bad, just smile and try to look on the bright side of life, then not only your family but your friends will be attracted with your boost of energy. You should get involved in activities and talk about them – then you will have a lot of things to talk about with your friends or relatives and just make them happy and don`t think about disappointing things. It`s better to keep away from disagreement and deal with conflicts successfully. But when it comes to solve that problem (it`s very difficult and step by step process), you must just cool off, take a deep breath and relax. Take your time to overthink once again what has happened. Don`t blame and accuse because your opponent is an individual person too and has his own mind. Be flexible and open-minded, willing to apologize, forgive and move on.