In our society, loneliness is usually viewed from a negative side. A lonely person appears in our minds as a sad, abandoned, and gloomy wanderer who could not find a refuge for himself. But I want to say that this is only one side of loneliness, moreover, rather dramatized
Let's start with the positive side: The first plus: If you replace self-examination with introspection, you will get a wonderful way to understand your "I". How to do it? We will definitely talk about this in other articles. In short, I will say this. To understand what is bad in me (but not to criticize), to understand what is good in me (but not to praise). Weigh the pros and cons and set goals.
The second plus: You will have a lot of free time to "pump" yourself. This is a very important point! You are the most important person in your life! Read books, learn languages. Now there is the Internet and a huge amount of excellent information - you have "three clicks".
The third plus: There is a time to set goals in life, to understand where you want to move.
The fourth plus: no one presses on you, does not condemn or impose their opinion on you. Also, you are not busy with some important work that needs to be done for someone.
I would like to give an example from my life: Although I am surrounded by a large number of acquaintances, friends, and relatives, sometimes I still feel sad. Why? Probably because they cannot understand me, I cannot pour out my soul to them. Therefore, I often lose myself in for the day, try to understand my problems, and fix them.
Now I propose to analyze the cons of such a popular problem: The first minus: loneliness kills socialization. You become “wild”, you forget what society is, you get rid of the habit of communication. After such a period, at first, it will be difficult to get back “in operation”.
The second minus: by not contacting others, you are missing important connections. We will definitely talk about connections separately, in other articles.
The third minus: General depression from lack of communication and possibly falling self-esteem are likely companions of loneliness...
Yes, sometimes we really lack communication. Sometimes you need to express everything that has been accumulated in you, pour out all your emotions to a person who will understand you with joy and help you morally.
Now let's get down to the bottom line. I believe we cannot be alone. However, we are still surrounded by people. Absolutely everywhere we have acquaintances, and even reluctantly, we can get to know any other person. Am I lonely? Probably not.
1. There were two men in the room. One of them was writing something while the other read a newspaper. 2. He didn't to tell me that he received a message from her. 3. I had asked him if he knew where she lived. I said I did not know her address. 4. He asked me if I could give him your address. 5. She said that hegave her the wrong address. 6. I asked him where he put my letter. 7. He told us that they had spent all the money. 8. Iwas sitting in an armchair and thought of my coming trip across the North Sea when the door suddenly opened and an old friend of mine whom I have not to seen for a very long time entered the room. 9. She came to see us just at the time when we have had dinner. It was the first time I have seen her. 10. I have seen him just as he left the hotel. 11. I have not seen him before we met at the concert. 12. He had left the house before I had time to ask him anything. 13. After spending several days in Paris he felt lonely and wanted to return home. 14. I thought he had already gone home. 15. I found the old man in the garden. He was talking to some children who stood around listening to him. 16. He spoke a language we had never head before. 17. He told me he had learnt it from the newspaper. 18. He entered the room, took something from the desk and went out.
Home alone
In our society, loneliness is usually viewed from a negative side. A lonely person appears in our minds as a sad, abandoned, and gloomy wanderer who could not find a refuge for himself. But I want to say that this is only one side of loneliness, moreover, rather dramatized
Let's start with the positive side: The first plus: If you replace self-examination with introspection, you will get a wonderful way to understand your "I". How to do it? We will definitely talk about this in other articles. In short, I will say this. To understand what is bad in me (but not to criticize), to understand what is good in me (but not to praise). Weigh the pros and cons and set goals.
The second plus: You will have a lot of free time to "pump" yourself. This is a very important point! You are the most important person in your life! Read books, learn languages. Now there is the Internet and a huge amount of excellent information - you have "three clicks".
The third plus: There is a time to set goals in life, to understand where you want to move.
The fourth plus: no one presses on you, does not condemn or impose their opinion on you. Also, you are not busy with some important work that needs to be done for someone.
I would like to give an example from my life: Although I am surrounded by a large number of acquaintances, friends, and relatives, sometimes I still feel sad. Why? Probably because they cannot understand me, I cannot pour out my soul to them. Therefore, I often lose myself in for the day, try to understand my problems, and fix them.
Now I propose to analyze the cons of such a popular problem: The first minus: loneliness kills socialization. You become “wild”, you forget what society is, you get rid of the habit of communication. After such a period, at first, it will be difficult to get back “in operation”.
The second minus: by not contacting others, you are missing important connections. We will definitely talk about connections separately, in other articles.
The third minus: General depression from lack of communication and possibly falling self-esteem are likely companions of loneliness...
Yes, sometimes we really lack communication. Sometimes you need to express everything that has been accumulated in you, pour out all your emotions to a person who will understand you with joy and help you morally.
Now let's get down to the bottom line. I believe we cannot be alone. However, we are still surrounded by people. Absolutely everywhere we have acquaintances, and even reluctantly, we can get to know any other person. Am I lonely? Probably not.
1. There were two men in the room. One of them was writing something while the other read a newspaper. 2. He didn't to tell me that he received a message from her. 3. I had asked him if he knew where she lived. I said I did not know her address. 4. He asked me if I could give him your address. 5. She said that hegave her the wrong address. 6. I asked him where he put my letter. 7. He told us that they had spent all the money. 8. Iwas sitting in an armchair and thought of my coming trip across the North Sea when the door suddenly opened and an old friend of mine whom I have not to seen for a very long time entered the room. 9. She came to see us just at the time when we have had dinner. It was the first time I have seen her. 10. I have seen him just as he left the hotel. 11. I have not seen him before we met at the concert. 12. He had left the house before I had time to ask him anything. 13. After spending several days in Paris he felt lonely and wanted to return home. 14. I thought he had already gone home. 15. I found the old man in the garden. He was talking to some children who stood around listening to him. 16. He spoke a language we had never head before. 17. He told me he had learnt it from the newspaper. 18. He entered the room, took something from the desk and went out.